A few gentle reminders…
Sex doesn't have to have penetration, an erection or even orgasm to be amazing.
Regularly negotiating when and how you have sex is a sign of a great relationship, not a failing one.
Please delete those videos of the fireworks. They are either unwatchable or disappointing.
And last but not least:
4. You are absolutely stunning. A national treasure. A gem among gems. Your friends and partner are lucky to have you in their life. You are important and smart and lovely. Never, ever forget.
Rooting for you,
C