Women are often socialized to take on the emotional and cognitive load of the household, the workplace and even the social group. This looks like scheduling dentist appointments, re-stocking the coffee filters at work and knowing when to send flowers to a friend because it is the anniversary of their father's death.

Men are socialized to think that these are “extras” they help with, but typically don’t take on fully.

I believe these extra cognitive and emotional responsibilities are part of why women find it hard to get aroused. Arousal and responsibility do not play well together. Arousal needs ease, safety and brain space to show up, and these cognitive / emotional responsibilities do not allow room for the healthy irresponsibility of arousal.

This inequality will not be disrupted by those it benefit. We will have to open the conversation about shifting the balance. That’s why my friend Erin and I are committed to helping you find where your habit holds you back from communicating your needs to partners, co-workers and friends.

You are not alone.

We are here to help you do life differently.

It’s time to go rogue!

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In three days of elevated personal support, you will:

Discover what brings you pleasure.

(PLEASURE)

Define and deconstruct current experiences of pleasure.
Let go of definitions of pleasure no longer serving you.
Allow the tolerance of contentment and pleasure:
- Mindset / upper limit
- Titration

Harness your power to live the life you desire.

(POWER)