Let me help you embrace pleasure
I've been thinking a lot about the idea of pleasure lately. What it means to different people, how it gets confused with selfishness and how ultimately, we all probably want more.
I'm working on the practice of noticing my small pleasures. As an Enneagram 9, I'm very good and routine and comfort. But I'm also noticing that there is a difference between being comfortable and experiencing pleasure. I'm finding that pleasure often takes more effort than comfort does. It is something we often experience with intention. Pleasure is a practice, if you will.
So, I'm working on creating pleasure practices, not just comfort rituals. For example, I have a spot in my house that is MY spot. It has a pillowy couch, soft blanket and a cute pedestal side table where my coffee sits each morning. It is so comfortable. But to up the ante on pleasure, I added a beautiful fragrant candle and a harem of small plants. Now it is not only the place that is comfortable for me to be, but also PLEASURABLE. A small change that made a big difference.
So, I'd like to challenge you this week to take your life (or your sex life) from comfortable to pleasurable. What could you add? Or take away? How can you bring pleasure into your life intentionally?
I'm rooting for you and your pleasure practices. I'm here to help if you need it!
Check out my upcoming super practical webinar about making your summer the most pleasurable ever. And of course...there will be giveaways!
Your Sexy Summer Webinar
Seven sexy ideas to keep your bedroom sizzling...even with the kids home from school
Join me on Monday, May 15th at 8pm CST / 9pm EST to discuss my favorite sex ideas to beat your summertime blues.
From slippery water play to romantic date nights under the summer stars, I've got your ultimate fun summer already planned for you. Ever practical, I'll be sure you leave with everything you need to know...from toy and lube suggestions to babysitting plans. You don't even have to lift a finger, I've got you!
And to top it off...there will be giveaways too! (Over $100 worth!)
This includes Access to:
-Your Sexy Summer Webinar Live Webinar (1 Hour 15 Minutes)
-Your Sexy Summer Webinar Replay (Access for 7 days)
-Products in the Webinar and any Resources
Price: $49
Can't make it live? Replays and resources will be sent out within 48 Hours following the live event on May 15th!
SPOTLIGHT
Blvck Spades
In my comfortable privilege, I hadn't considered how not-diverse my playing cards were until I saw this kickass deck. Amazing, right? Grab yourself some too and help support this Black-owned business all while updating your game set!