Did you know I'm a car girl?

I'm a low key car girl

I took auto mechanics in high school and I can change my own oil, tires and spark/ glow plugs. I just choose not to :)

I really don't like balloons

I have no reason for this.

I experience self doubt & anxiety

I am proud of how I have worked to manage those in the past few years. (Shoutout to my therapist, Sarah!)

I'm real tall

Six foot to be exact. When people ask me if I play basketball, my standard response is, "Not very well."

I work on my own sex life

It isn't “easy” or “natural” just because it is my profession. But I do feel like it is very normal for me to work on it, and so in turn, I enjoy a pretty rockin' sex life. And when it's not, (which happens, because I'm a particularly regular human being) I've learned how to communicate with my darling partner and negotiate for myself. And that may possibly be the only difference between me and you. I have learned sex is something that takes intention, exploration and negotiation. And you may still think it is supposed to be "natural" and "spontaneous."

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SPOTLIGHT

Blvck Spades

Honestly, I found this week's spotlight because Instagram served me an ad and I immediately fell in love. In my comfortable privilege, I hadn't considered how not-diverse my playing cards were until I saw this kickass deck. Amazing, right? Grab yourself some too and help support this Black-owned business all while updating your game set!